Don’t let a lack of time get in the way of your love life
BY SOFIE ROOS, IMAGE BY RNDE STOCK PROJECT/UNSPLASH
Having quickies is an amazing way to be intimate and keep the spark alive. Looking for some inspo? Here are four sex positions I’d recommend to all those wanting hot and pleasurable sex but don’t have much time.
Kneeling oral
One of you kneels in front of the other, preferably with something soft under your knees. The person in the standing position takes off whatever they have on the lower half of their body. The kneeling person then eats their partner’s vulva or ass, either from behind or while facing each other.
To make it easier to give oral, the standing partner can spread their legs or take support against a wall and then rest one leg on their kneeling partner’s back or shoulder. Doing this makes it easier to reach the clit, vagina and ass!
For those doing this position from behind, the receiving partner can bend over to make it easier to reach for the one giving head.
Pro tip: focus on their clit with your mouth, and then finger them at the same time. By positioning your head in a way that leaves space, it’s surprisingly easy to do both at once!
Riding face
If you love oral, you’ll also want to give this one a try. The one giving oral lies down, and the receiver pulls their pants down and sits on their partner’s face. You can do this position anywhere you can lie down. The one receiving can control the stimulation and it creates a kinky submissive and dominant dynamic.
Pro tip: If you feel pain in your knees, you can squat over your partner’s face by standing on your feet!
Sitting on a chair or table
Into oral positions where it’s super easy to reach the V? Then simply ask your partner to sit on a chair or on a table. Spread their legs and rest them on your shoulders, and then eat them out as if there’s no tomorrow! This is also a great position for fingering, and, if on a table, strapping too.
Stand from behind
And speaking of strapping: if that’s your cup of tea, you must try this position during your next quickie. This one works everywhere you can stand, which, in other words, makes it perfect for a hot quickie whenever you get in the mood.
The one who’s about to get penetrated bends forward, either against a table, a chair, or by taking support with their hands on their own thighs. The penetrator then gets behind, drags down the pants or lifts up the skirt of their partner, and starts penetrating. The one behind can hold their partner’s hip, their arms or hands for extra support.
To deal with an eventual height difference, the one getting penetrated can spread their legs more to lower themselves, or you can use something to stand on to get up, no matter if it’s a pair of books lying around or a small stool.
To make the penetration deeper, the one being penetrated can bend over more, or you can lift up one leg by dragging the knee to your stomach. The one who gets penetrated can also spread their legs a bit to better reach the clitoris!
Sofie Roos is a licensed sexologist and relationship therapist as well as author at the Swedish sex and relationship magazine Passionerad
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