Here are six sexpert tips to ramp up your cunnilingus game
BY SOFIE ROOS, IMAGE BY CHARLESDELUVIO VIA UNSPLASH
Are you looking for ways to make oral sex even funnier and hotter? Last year, I wrote about ways to get better at eating pussy, and now it’s time for me to follow up with some new tips and tricks on how to make it extra spicy!
Try to lick and suck at the same time
Focus on the clit. Instead of using your tongue to lick up and down or do circles, try combining this with sucking it at the same time. It’s a real game changer!
The trick is to suck quite intensely while you keep a steady rhythm with your tongue. This takes practice, but once you master it, you’ll open up a whole new universe of pleasure for your partner.
Use fun lubes
There’s plenty of lubes out there, from ones that give a heating or cooling feeling to ones that give a tingling sensation or have smells and tastes. Using one of these lubes while giving head can make it feel extra stimulating both for yourself and for your partner.
Switch up locations
There are tons of hot places to have sapphic sex at. Whether it’s on the kitchen table, in the car or in a forest, having oral outside of the bedroom can add a new touch of excitement that can make it feel extra hot.
Try having quickies
Oral sex doesn’t always have to go on for long; it works perfectly for a quickie! Just pull down your pants, lie down on a table, on the floor or on the bed, get intimate for a few minutes and then keep on with whatever you were doing before. Oral quickies are a lovely way to stimulate your sex life and get intimate more often. They give you the chance for some pleasure in situations with little time, such as before going to work or out to dinner.
Do also read: Advice for having more pleasurable sex in under five minutes!
Combine oral with a sex toy
You can give oral sex at the same time as you’re using a sex toy on your partner. If you’re focused on the clitoris, then use a rabbit vibrator or dildo to penetrate them as you lick their clit. For those who prefer eating ass, focus on the vagina and then you can use a bullet or air pulse vibrator on their clitoris (or get them to use it on themselves!). You can also throw in other fun sex toys that stimulate other erogenous zones, such as nipple vibrators or ass toys.
Try the 69 position
If you haven’t had the 69 yet and are curious about new and hot sex positions, then give it a try!
There are tons of ways to have it. For example, one of you can lie on your back, and the other can be on top. You can also lay on the side, or even try it with one of you standing up and holding the partner upside down. Be warned, the latter does require a great amount of strength.
You can turn the lights off if that makes you feel more comfortable trialling this position. This is a lovely and very intimate sex position that really takes oral fun to the next level. So, talk about how you’d like to explore it and adapt the 69 in a way that feels good for both of you.
Sofie Roos is a licensed sexologist and relationship therapist as well as author at the Swedish sex and relationship magazine Passionerad
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