These can be used with partners of different genders
BY SOFIE ROOS, IMAGE BY FFG IMAGES/CANVA
Are you a bisexual woman or non-binary person who’s looking for a couples sex toy to use together with your partner, and want to shop for something that can be used no matter what your loved one has between their legs?
Whether you’re bisexual or have a partner(s) with a different anatomy to yourself, you’re in the right place. Here are six hot and pleasurable adult toys you can use with a partner regardless of their anatomy.
LELO Ina Thrust — Thrusting vibrator for vaginal and anal penetration
A thrusting vibrator, also called a thrusting dildo, is a dildo that penetrates and vibrates. Ina Thust from LELO combines deep and balanced thrustings, vibrations and clitoris stimulation, all packed in a premium sex toy made out of the softest silicone. It has 16 intensity levels, is waterproof, you control it via your phone, and it can be used both vaginally and anally.
You can buy your LELO Ina Thrust here
Wet For Her Bundle RideHer — Boxer harness and beginner friendly strap-on dildo kit
No matter if you’re into vaginal strapping or anal pegging, this kit from Wet For Her is one of my all time favorite beginner kits. The harness is super comfy and yet sits stable and gives good support. It comes in six sizes, and the dildo is very pleasurable while remaining beginner friendly and you can choose between three sizes and colours. If you’re interested in exploring strap-on sex, this is a must buy!
Buy this beginner strapping set at Wet For Her here
Nexus Revo — An amazing vibrating butt plug
This waterproof and rechargeable UK designed anal massager is a real best seller that can be used together no matter your gender. It’s made out of soft silicone with a perfect shape that when inserted both vibrates and rotates very gently, something that gives super strong ass orgasms. And if you or your partner have a p-spot, Nexus Revo will stimulate it directly at the same time as it gives love to the perineum, a combination that quickly builds up deep and intense prostate orgasms. So, if you’re looking for something that will give strong anal climaxes and that can be used together, for example during penetrative sex or foreplay, this is a hot recommendation.
Njoy Pure Plug — Luxurious stainless steel butt plug
This qualitative butt plug is made out of stainless steel and comes in three sizes. I recommend the small one for complete newbies, and the medium one for folks who’d like to be able to grow with their plug for some more time. The large alternative is great for everyone loving really intense pleasure back there. It’s super easy to insert the plug, it stimulates amazingly on people both with penis and vagina thanks to its shape and high weight. You can use it both for passive stimulation and for warm up before more intense anal fun, and it can be used with all lubes.
Lelo Surfer — High end vibrating anal plug
This is a waterproof one size fits all vibrating butt plug from the Swedish high-end sex toy brand LELO that I really recommend for people of all genders who’re looking for something timeless and pleasurable. The plug is made out of premium silicone and easily glides into your ass and fills you out in an intense and pleasurable way. Once inserted, you choose between the vibration modes either from the LELO app or manually on the toy itself. Choose between two colours, and enjoy the long battery-life all day by wearing it outside the bed under your clothes.Â
Vixen Creations Small Realistic Bent — Beginner friendly premium dildo
This is a small and beginner-friendly, affordable yet luxurious, realistically feeling but neutrally looking, soft and hand made dildo from the US premium sex toy brand Vixen. The dildo – which comes in four colours – has amazing details and is made out of lovely silicone. It has a solid base that lets you use it safely in all holes, and it’s harness-compatible which means that you can use it during strapping. The glans is easy to insert in combination with some lube, and the dicks bended shape stimulates the prostate or g-spot perfectly, which can lead to amazing orgasms! To me, this is the choice for every beginner to anal or vaginal penetration who craves a realistic feeling. This is a safe, easy to use, pleasurable and high-quality dildo.
About the author: Sofie Roos is a licensed sexologist and relationship therapist, as well as author at the Swedish sex and relationship magazine Passionerad
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