It’s a great season to have some amazing sapphic sex!
BY SOFIE ROOS, IMAGE VIA CANVA
Autumn is a great time of the year for amazing sex and I’m here to give you my hottest sex ideas to try during this season. So, if you’re a sapphic who wants to spice up your sex life as the days start to become darker, well, I’ve got you covered.
My credentials? I’m Sofie Roos, a licensed sexologist and relationship therapist, as well as author for the Swedish relationship and sex positive online magazine Passionerad.
Play a sex game
Autumn means board game season, right? But this year, why not spice up game night by investing a sex game?
There are plenty of alternatives out there, so pick a game that speaks to you, and I’ll promise that it will make you communicate better around intimacy, and give that little push you needed to try the things you’ve secretly dreamed about for so long.
So light some candles, put on some hot underwear, get yourself something warm to drink, and get ready for the hottest evening in a long time!
Have car sex
To get out in the car and park at some beautiful spot and get intimate while it’s all cold and crispy outside is extremely cosy. So, get out on a mini road-trip when you’re in the mood, and find a place you like, then fall back those seats or get in the back.
Make a sex list of one new thing to try each week of the autumn
Autumn can easily feel like a never ending period of darkness and cold weather, but making a sex list with things you want to try in bed, either with yourself or a partner, lightens things up – so try to come up with one thing for every week from September to November.
Lock in and have sex all day
Try to spend one whole day when it’s bad weather to just roll around in the bedsheets with one another. Be intimate and forget about the world outside. Basically, do nothing for one whole day, except getting to know each other, physically and emotionally.
Take pauses for cooking, watching a movie or listening to some music – but try not to leave the bed too much, and not to put on any clothes during the day.
Take a hot shower 😉
When you feel frozen in the middle of the hard rain, take your partner with you in the shower and turn up the heat, both on the water temperature and between you!
Try roleplaying
This is the perfect time to try this out. Halloween is around the corner and there is an abundance of costumes to buy everywhere. So, pick your favourite characters from a fantasy world you like, build up a scenario and let it play out during sex.
Have a sensual picnic in the woods
Bring some hot chocolate, a blanket, some cinnamon rolls, dress warmly and go out in the woods on a sunny day and find a beautiful spot without any people around, then have a picnic and get touchy.
The fresh autumn air, all the beautiful colours and the brisk air make for a really beautiful atmosphere. Combining this with making love is great, just make sure you can keep the heat, so bring an extra thick blanket and think of ways to warm yourselves up before and after.
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