“By the time I came out, my body had already absorbed years of vigilance”
Love and grief: The unavoidable parts of life
Published on :“I, like many trans and non-binary people, am used to grief because we lose so much: friendships, careers, and now, even our place in society. But, while grief is seen as a bad thing, it’s actually the reverse; it’s the great healer, the resetter of life, the great enabler”
Then and now: Gender affirming healthcareÂ
Published on :Actor and writer Tabby Lamb examines the history of gender affirming surgery and calls for a more accessible future
Love After Lockdown: Claiming my identity
Published on :“My jigsaw is still evolving. It gets bigger and better as our community grows” BY THE CHEEKY CHARMER, IMAGE VIA PEXELS Claiming your lesbian identity doesn’t necessarily stop with: “Hey [….]
Love After Lockdown: Control in the bedroom
Published on :“You create an illusion together where the top’s the dominator. In reality, they only dominate because the bottom facilitates it” BY THE CHEEKY CHARMER, IMAGE BY OLEG IVANOV VIA UNSPLASH [….]
The dildo diaries: what it’s really like working in a mainstream sex shop as a queer woman
Published on :“The couple stood in front of me eyeballing shelf after shelf; from chipolata to vibrating, rotating bratwursts” WORDS BY GEORGIA BUTLER, IMAGE VIA PEXELS I started working for Ann Summers [….]