We hope this list makes you feel inspired to try some of these out
BY SOFIE ROOS, IMAGE BY HAM KRIS
Sick of always only getting busy in the bedsheets? Looking for some inspiration for how to change things up and have sex in new places? Well, you’re in luck.
I’m Sofie Roos, a licensed sexologist, relationship therapist and author at the Swedish relationship and sex positive magazine Passionerad, and today I’m here to advise on places that work perfectly for lesbian and sapphic sex.
Don’t forget: If you are in any public space, remember to show respect to the people around you, as well as get updated on the laws regarding sex and nudity in your area.
Shower or bathtub sex
Get into the bathroom together and have sex while showering or being in the bathtub! It’s accessible, hot, and might be the perfect foreplay if you want to get into bed later.
Eat each other out in the kitchen
Put your partner up on the kitchen table or on the sink, take their underwear off and get on your knees to perform oral. The kitchen is such an undervalued place when it comes to getting intimate, that most people forget about it.
In the forest
Having sex in this location feels extremely liberating and lovely, especially on a sunny summer’s day. Bring a blanket to lay on, and find a calm spot, such as a small open field or a grove, make sure no one will pass by, and then lay down for some 69, lay on the back and touch each other while you look up at the treetops. You could even bend over against a fallen tree or a rock for some strapping, pegging or oral sex.
In the car
Drive to a remote spot that you like, such as an empty parking lot at night, or to a viewpoint far away. Then pull down the seats and finger or use sex toys on each other. You could also put on a strap-on and ride each other in cowgirl in the backseat.
You can also use the car stereo to help set the mood.
At the beach
This makes for a beautiful experience where sex and nature collide. The sound of the waves, the fresh air, heat from each other’s bodies and the sun kissing your face, all work to make this a very special experience.
Just make sure that you bring a blanket and some wet wipes to get rid of any sand!
If you bring an extra blanket, you can protect others from seeing anything and therefore engage sneakily, even if the beach is not completely deserted. It also protects from the fresh breeze.
Pro tip: If you are alone, don’t miss out on the chance to skinny dip and get intimate in the water.
On a balcony or in the garden
Do you have a balcony or a garden? Well, those places are perfect for slow and discreet sex sessions, especially on a summer night!
On a roof
Do you have access to any roof? If so, pack a picnic and get up there for a romantic and sensual date. Then get intimate when the darkness protects you and you can feel like being a teenager again. It’s romantic, a bit naughty, and gives you an amazing view!
Go hiking, and have sex along the way
Pack food, a tent and put on some great boots, and then go out and explore nature and stop at beautiful places for sex. At night, you can get busy in the tent with all the natural sounds just outside. That feeling is unbeatable!
While clubbing
Dance and have fun with each other while attending a night club. When the mood strikes sneak into a toilet and make out and touch each other while the bass music is covering your noise.
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