This LGBT+ History Month, learn more about the Ladies of Llangollen
BY ELLA GAUCI, IMAGE BY WIKIMEDIA COMMONS
Eleanor Butler and Sarah Ponsonby, famously known as the Ladies of Llangollen, defied 18th-century societal norms to live a life of independence and devotion to one another in the Welsh countryside. Their story has captivated historians and the LGBTQIA community alike, serving as a timeless example of love, companionship, and resilience against convention. This LGBT+ History Month, join us as we learn more about this pair.
Their initial escape was thwarted by a loyal dog
In 1778, determined to avoid societal pressures to marry, Butler and Ponsonby attempted to flee Ireland together. Disguised in men’s clothing and armed with a pistol, they aimed to reach Wales. However, their plan was foiled when Sarah’s dog, Frisk, whose incessant barking alerted pursuers to their hiding spot near Waterford dock. This led to their capture and return to their respective families. Undeterred, they eventually succeeded in their escape later that year.
They created a Gothic sanctuary at Plas Newydd
Settling in Llangollen, Wales, the ladies transformed a modest cottage into Plas Newydd, a Gothic-style home adorned with carved oak panelling, pointed arches, and stained glass windows. They also cultivated elaborate gardens featuring rustic bridges, a “ruined” archway, and a temple housing a font from the nearby Valle Crucis Abbey.
They maintained a distinctive personal style
In their later years, Butler and Ponsonby adopted a distinctive style, dressing in black riding habits and men’s top hats. While some visitors considered this eccentric, locals viewed their attire as practical for their outdoor lifestyle. This choice further distinguished them in society and contributed to their lasting legacy.
Their faithful servant, Mary Carryl, was integral to their household
Mary Carryl, originally a servant in Sarah Ponsonby’s household, played a crucial role in the ladies’ lives. She assisted in their initial escape by smuggling food to the hidden Eleanor and later joined them in Wales, becoming their housekeeper and loyal companion. Known for her assertive personality, Mary managed household affairs and was deeply valued by the ladies. Upon her death in 1809, they erected a monument in her honour, and all three share the same grave in St Collen’s Churchyard in Llangollen.
They were visited by prominent figures of their time
Despite seeking a secluded life, the Ladies of Llangollen attracted numerous notable visitors. Their guests included literary figures like William Wordsworth, Lord Byron, Sir Walter Scott, and Percy Shelley, as well as the Duke of Wellington and industrialist Josiah Wedgwood. Their home became a cultural hub, and their lifestyle intrigued and inspired many.
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